Speaking In Public
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10 Speaking In Public Overcome your fear of speaking and leverage the stage for success.
Thick skin is a common trait among lifetime salespeople – those who don’t have it don’t last very long – and a trait I am glad to possess. As a result, I don’t get embarrassed very easily, hardly ever, in fact. Yet when I examine the past, a few incredibly embarrassing moments do come to mind, and the common element among them is they each occurred while I was at the podium. The first, possibly the worst, and therefore most memorable, happened when I was a sophomore in high school. Mr. Harms, my psychology teacher, was the “coolest” teacher at school. Only a few years out of college himself, he was close enough to our age that we considered him one of us, and that translated to a kinship with most of the kids in our class. Mr. Harms had an interesting and effective way of helping his students learn from their mistakes. The day after a test, the class would go over every question and answer together. Since he didn’t like to read the whole test himself, Mr. Harms would select students to go to the front of the room and read sections – taking turns until the review was complete. On this particular day, we were reviewing a test on instinctive behaviors – how organisms have a genetic heritage that causes them to behave in predictable ways. I was at the podium reviewing the material with the class, when I read the following question out loud: “How do orgasms— ” I suppose if I hadn’t stopped dead in my tracks, dropped my head, turned beet red, and tried to peek around the room to see whether anyone noticed, I might have gotten away with my slipup. But then again, in this classroom of 15- and 16-year-olds, there wasn’t much chance of that. But the thing that I’ll remember forever wasn’t the reaction from my fellow students, but the reaction from Mr. Harms. As my eyes finally met his, he burst into a fit of laughter that rings in my ears to this day. And naturally, as soon as Mr. Harms started laughing, the rest of the class let loose. (He confided later that he had been waiting years for a student to make that mistake.) Return On Investment This may sound a bit melodramatic, but my high school experience scared me for years and left me terrified of speaking to a group. So, you can imagine how I felt when I got into sales and learned that, whether I liked it or not, I would have to speak to groups to survive. Even if it was only before four or five people in a prospect’s conference room, or spending 10 seconds introducing myself at a seminar, speaking in public became necessary – a skill I had to master, and a fear I was forced to overcome. In the coming pages, I’ll share some ideas for overcoming the fear of public speaking, and for turning any chance to speak into an enjoyable, and profitable, marketing activity. But before you invest the time and energy to improve your speaking abilities, you will probably want to know what return that investment will bring. Five major benefits are related to accepting this challenge:
And before you let your internal voice say, “I can’t because I’m an introvert,” I’d like to point out that Alan Weiss, Ph.D., highly paid public speaker, author of “Money Talks: How To Make A Million As A Speaker,” mentor and friend, is a self-proclaimed wallflower. The guy can control a room as well as anybody alive, but the only way to find him at a party is to look in the shadows. To achieve success at selling, repeat after me: “I can and I will challenge myself to improve my public-speaking abilities until I am no longer terrified to speak to groups.” Overcoming Your Fears Thirteen people were in the audience of my first-ever Honest Selling Breakfast Club – a once-per-month workshop on sales and marketing. Oh how I wish I had that presentation on tape, because showing you how bad I did would be one of the best ways possible to make you believe anyone – even a stumble-mouth, crackle-voice like me – can overcome the fear of speaking. (My fear was so bad, in fact, I almost abandoned the Breakfast Club entirely. But I worked through it, and, in the subsequent four years, these meetings produced far more clients than any other activity I used. So I’m glad I pushed forward despite my failure, and my fears. Now I really enjoy speaking before groups.) There is really only one way to overcome your fear of public speaking, and that’s to follow the Nike slogan: “Just Do It.” But before you make the leap, you should do a few things to lessen the likelihood that you’ll stumble, as I did at my first presentation:
In the end, fear of public speaking is actually a wonderful thing. Think about it for a minute. Where else can you get the rush that comes from being totally terrified without actually risking life or limb? And with the payout being so profound – increased credibility, customers calling you, the ego trip of being respected for your ideas – why not take the risk? Choosing Your Speaking Opportunities I’m going to assume you’re a salesperson who is speaking primarily to generate sales, rather than a professional speaker who wants to make a living from speaking engagements. I’m also going to assume that you’re willing to invest the time required to speak anywhere, provided the organization that invited you to speak is willing to cover your costs, such as transportation, lodging and meals. To determine where you should spend your speaking time, you must answer a few questions:
Obviously, some of these questions can’t be answered by you alone – you’ll need to contact your prospects and/or clients to get answers. I recommend you start with your current client list. The next time you’re talking to a client, ask something like, “Do you attend any trade association meetings or other public business functions in town?” If you can, add “Are there any national conferences or events you find valuable?” This may sound simple, but you’d be surprised how many salespeople either forget or are hesitant to ask these questions. I’ve been asking them for 25 years, and I have never had a client or prospect react negatively, probably because I’m asking for an opinion and guidance, which is something most people are glad to share. Bottom line: For you to achieve the maximum sales benefit from public speaking, you must speak where your buyers or recommenders hang out, about subjects they want to hear, in a way that is unique and memorable. Building Your Presentation Portfolio You can consider many types of public speaking presentations, from keynote speeches to being a clown at a child’s birthday party. But for purposes of selling (rather than making a living by speaking), I’ve found the following four to be the most effective:
While a host of factors can contribute to the success – producing as many new sales as possible – of any given effort, the two most important factors to consider are the credibility created by your speaking engagement and the size of the audience. So when evaluating your speaking opportunities, if all other things are equal, you should choose the opportunity that establishes you as “the recognized expert” with the largest audience. For example, at a large conference, the person who delivers the keynote address is automatically assumed to be “the best,” simply because he or she has been selected by conference organizers to deliver the keynote. And since the keynote is delivered to the entire assembly, the number of people who hear the message is quite large.
I’ve done the planning, and for me this is actually a tough choice, because the keynote – while I’m not getting paid for it – will generally produce more long-term opportunities, but the workshop will produce short-term wins. But when I factor in that I now really enjoy professional speaking, I always lean toward the keynote. After all, if I do well, I’ll not only produce sales opportunities for my consulting and other services, I’ll probably produce paid speaking engagement opportunities as well. The point I’m trying to make, of course, is to think through your marketing plans for each type of speaking engagement in your portfolio, so when you’re faced with a choice such as this, the decision is clear. Creating Effective Presentations There are as many opinions as to what makes effective presentations as there are presenters making them, so I won’t get into substance here. Personally, I don’t care whether you’re doing a high-wire and juggling act, or standing behind a podium looking like a deer in headlights, the bottom line is, there are three primary keys to “being effective” when presenting, and how you accomplish them isn’t nearly as important as the fact that you do accomplish them all. Key 1: Produce The Owner’s Results The first key to being effective is to produce the results desired by the person who “owns” the meeting. This is the person who is being judged based on the success of the entire program, which is often not the same as the person selecting speakers – who is likely the event planner or organizer. The owner of the meeting is the person who signs the contract or writes the check, such as the division head, vice president, president or chief executive officer of the company, or the president of the association or organization. (Event organizers rarely own the meeting, but always know who does.) Before you can produce the owner’s desired results, you must:
Bottom line: Never give a presentation without talking to the meeting owner and learning about his or her desired results. Key 2: Communicate Clearly As simple as this concept is, you would be surprised how many speakers forget that their job is to communicate a message clearly and simply. In Chapter 4, I gave you several ideas for improving your ability to communicate. Apply those concepts when creating your speech, and you’ll undoubtedly create something that is quite effective. (Be certain to incorporate stories and analogies into your presentation, regardless of how dry or mundane your subject may be.) Key 3: Take A Controversial Stand Once you’ve created a clear message that produces the owner’s results, concentrate on producing the result you want as well – to build relationships and credibility that will increase sales quickly. The best way I know to turn a presentation into immediate sales is to take a stand that is somewhat controversial. What about your products or services is different? What sets you apart from the competition? What hard-nosed stance can you take in support of that difference? Bottom line: Attendees don’t want to hear safe messages; they want provocative content that makes them think and challenges them to try new things. The greater the risk you’re willing to take, the more effective your speech will be at both accomplishing the owner’s results and creating sales opportunities for you. Obviously, the stand you take must be something in which you believe, not a contrived stance just to be different, because you simply can’t sell unless you believe in what you’re selling. If I believed in manipulation in sales, for instance, my podium-pounding demand for honesty in sales would not work. Style And Format As for presentation style and format, and which technology to use, do whatever fits your personality. I’m great when I’m forced to think on my feet, so I often do presentations with a blank flipchart and marker. But I’ve seen many presenters do incredible jobs with PowerPoint® presentations – provided they didn’t spend their hour reading the content of 35 slides to the audience. Use as much technology as you must to be comfortable when delivering your message. But regardless of what you use, remember this simple fact of professional speaking: Somewhere, sometime, when you least expect it, your technology will crash and burn – your PowerPoint® presentation will contain a virus, your handouts will not arrive, perhaps the power will go out and they’ll move you to an outside venue. Be prepared for anything. I follow this rule with all presentations: You’ll know you are totally prepared when you can produce the owner’s desired result, communicate your message clearly and create sales opportunities with nothing more than your voice. (And just in case you get laryngitis, you might ask the meeting organizer to have a contingency speaker on hand!) Get Speaking Engagements Following are three of my favorite ways to secure speaking engagements. Please do not use only these three methods, because you will undoubtedly miss out on many opportunities that you could have seized. I’ll Be There Already Remember how I said in Chapter 2 that prospects are afraid of many things, and that, once you find their fears, you can use that knowledge to create sales opportunities? Well, think about what meeting owners and organizers fear above all else – especially on event morning, when they have hundreds of things to get done. Put yourself in the position of having lined up 35 speakers for an all-week conference, and most of those speakers are traveling from out of town. What kept you up last night? Bottom line: Meeting organizers are terrified that a speaker won’t show up due to travel delays, illness, even unprofessional behavior. So if that’s a meeting organizer’s greatest fear, leverage it – build great relationships by helping to minimize that fear. Imagine how many great relationships you’ll build if you send a letter containing the following message before attending your next conference (address it to the meeting owner, event planner and/or program director):
If you attend association meetings and conferences as part of your marketing plan, then create and implement a before-activity step that says, “Send I’ll-be-there-already letter.” You’re Invited Once you’re selected to speak at an event, you have instant social proof – you were chosen by someone to speak, so you must be good – that you can leverage to build relationships with other event owners and organizers in the area where you’ll speak. A very simple, yet effective, marketing method is to invite these people to the meeting, so they can see your presentation firsthand. I’ve found a handwritten note card with the following message produces great results:
This is not going to produce immediate short-term results, because you probably won’t have hundreds of meeting organizers to whom you can mail at any given time, but if you invite those in your database to all the meetings in their areas, a large percentage of them will eventually come to a meeting or simply call you to speak at one of their events. Give And Ye Shall Receive Wouldn’t it be great to have other speakers referring you to the event owners and organizers they know? Then why not do the same for them first? I assume that you occasionally attend functions where experts speak. I also assume that by now you’ve created a marketing plan for attending these functions, and that plan has before, during and after sections. To get referrals from other speakers, add the following tasks to the during and after sections of your plan:
When you make your introductions, you can carefully include something like, “When I spoke at your association, I learned that the majority of your members are business owners. Last night, I heard Sally speak about achieving balance between personal life and work, and she did such a great job, I thought she might be a fit for your group.” If Sally gets a gig, follow up and ask her whether any of her audiences would want to learn about your subject – the reciprocation factor virtually guarantees at least one introduction. Setting Your Fee Since you’re really in this to make sales to people you meet while speaking, you should be willing to speak almost any time someone invites you to do so. As a rule of thumb, I charge for-profit groups (like corporations scheduling a retreat) a fee plus any expenses, and I charge nonprofit groups expenses only. However, if the situation is right – meaning I have a high expectation of securing many sales – I’ll cover my own expenses. Bottom line: Charge as much as the meeting owner is willing to pay for you to produce the desired result. Below is an example of how this fee-setting conversation might go. (Bear in mind that this example picks up at the end of a sales call that lasted 45 minutes and explored several different topics, so our relationship is already solid.) I’ve already determined that the managing partner of this accounting firm wants me to deliver an after-lunch keynote at her firm’s annual retreat. There will be 350 accountants in the room. The objectives of the presentation are twofold. First, I am to challenge all firm members to make one change that will result in one new client during the coming year, and give them three ideas for achieving that goal. Second, the managing partner and I had already agreed that I would provide coaching, mentoring and training to the first 10 accountants at her firm who indicated they wanted help, so we would use this platform to introduce them to the concepts of Honest Selling.
Before these conversations happen, most salespeople have a fee in their heads – a number they’ll lay on the table if forced to. As Sue was about to tell me what she’d pay, the fee in my head was only $2,500 – my magic wand produced an additional $2,500 of income right out of thin air! Even though conducting a return-on-investment interview like this doesn’t always work, when it does, I find that I end up getting paid twice or three times as much for my presentations than I expected. But again, the key is to let the executive pay you as much as he or she wants. Converting Presentations Into Sales Just as with every other marketing activity, to ensure maximum response, you must organize your plan. Following is the public-speaking marketing plan I created and use whenever I speak to groups where anyone can attend, such as a trade association meeting or conference. In other words, I would not implement this plan for private engagements (like Sue’s accounting firm retreat above). Keep in mind that this is merely a guideline to ensure I don’t miss any steps. For each speaking event, I usually implement additional ideas based on the specifics of the situation or the meeting. I don’t always implement all the steps shown below, because they aren’t always a fit, but I do review this plan for every speech to ensure I’m generating the best possible response. Objectives
Before Activities My public-speaking marketing plan has two before-activity phases. One phase happens during the negotiations with the meeting organizers, and the other occurs once the engagement is booked. Negotiations With Meeting Organizers
After The Meeting Is On The Calendar
During Activities
After Activities
Likely Outcomes
Estimated (Or Targeted) Results
Time Investment
I know I’m starting to sound like a broken record, but organization and preplanning are true keys to getting the highest return possible from your efforts and shortening your journey to the number one spot. The [Your Name Here] Sales System: Speaking Public speaking is a high-risk, high-reward marketing activity. You can and will flop on occasion (the risk), but you also can and will secure huge sales opportunities (the reward), if you make the commitment and get over your fears. There is simply no faster way to establish credibility than to give a well-organized and effective presentation to a group of your prospects – and it’s something anyone who wants to achieve success at selling should seriously consider doing. Additional Resources For detailed and practical advice on everything related to public speaking, buy a copy of “Money Talks: How To Make A Million As A Speaker,” by Alan Weiss, Ph.D., and study it carefully. For peer encouragement and training, consider the following two organizations:
Both of these organizations have chapters around the world, and Toastmasters tends to have multiple groups in a single major city. So if you join a chapter that isn’t a fit, consider trying another chapter before abandoning the organization as a whole. < TOC Previous Chapter Next Chapter > Tired of reading on-line? Buy the book. (All profit goes to charity.) |
